“CICL’S infant loss support group has been that for me since 2019 and has helped so many others, especially during the pandemic. To say that I’m grateful for the connection in an understatement.”

Before the death of your child, you’re untouched. You may hear heart-wrenching stories about families who have lost children from others or see it on social media.  But it’s not until you experience the loss of your own child that you’re REALLY made aware of all that is involved, including the fact that there’s a community made up of bereaved parents. Even after learning this, you may still feel isolated. When you lose a child, your world is turned upside down, lit on fire, and completely wrecked.

This is where support groups step up and make room for you. When you’re ready to talk, support groups are there – this means people are there. You are no longer alone because there are other parents in which to connect and while your stories vary greatly – the heartbreak resonates.

It is so vital to be able to connect with others who will not only accept your raw emotion without judgement, but provide both sympathy and empathy, while representing different perspectives. It’s essential to be heard and, oftentimes, letting it out best benefits you in your journey of healing (because it IS a lifelong journey).